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The Bishop's Notebook
26 April 2002


Earlier this week our office had the pleasure of hosting the Hospice Foundation of America teleconference on dealing with grief in later life. The HFA always does a terrific job with these live satellite broadcasts; TV news commentator Cokie Roberts was the moderator, there was a panel of expert guests and the conversations were interesting and educational. But for me, some of the most interesting people, and comments, were from a group of senior citizens who provided "background" to the panel discussion.

An elderly Japanese gentleman spoke of having recently come to a new understanding of how is must feel to be of Arab descent in the US today, when he remembered back to his own experiences of anti-Japanese sentiment during the Second World War. A nursing home resident spoke of the cathartic importance of attending funerals in a world where her social opportunities were now largely defined by such events. When the experts get to intellectualizing, we often strive to be profound and use big words and big concepts. But I was struck by this woman's simple grasp of what is a truth for her, that "funerals are fun."

I have frequently discussed this same concept with clergy colleagues. I have found one-hundred-percent agreement that funerals provide a much deeper opportunity to provide the ministrations of the Church than do weddings. A colleague or two has actually said to me that funerals are fun. It is often the simplest expressions of profound theology that mean the most to us in the long run.

The other day, as I was riding on the elevator I was mulling over that statement of St. Paul from prison: "I have learned, in whatever state I am …" A co-worker got on the elevator at an intermediate floor and I made some sort of perfunctory good-morning sort of remark. To which she replied: "I thank God for everything, always." Were he alive today, St. Paul would not have said it better.


David Henritzy


The Bishop's Photoalbum
19 April 2002


Images from Bishop Packard's Holy Week and Eastertide trip to Kosovo and Bosnia

 
Camp Bondsteel, Kosovo
View of "Big Duke"
 
Camp Bondsteel, Easter sunrise


   
Bishop Packard
Baptism of 1LT Tracey Sullins at Eagle Base, Bosnia
Chaplain John Weatherly



The Bishop's Notebook
15 April 2002

Last week I had the privilege to attend a conference/retreat for prison wardens sponsored by the Diocese of East Carolina and organized by one of our state prison chaplains, Joe Dunlop. What a great experience this was for me! To see this group not only sharing their faith but coming together in a peace-filled place where they could give voice to their concerns and dreams was very moving. This model is a good example of how to care for those who are usually forgotten. The staff of any institution has great responsibilities and challenges and these can be magnified in a prison setting. This retreat was not all work. The wardens had plenty of time for hiking, fishing and for telling tales about the "one that got away".

The second half of my week was spent at the first Province III Prison Conference, held in Richmond, Virginia. Sister Helen Prejean spoke to us about supporting the moratorium on capital punishment and called for the Church to continue to work towards its elimination. On Friday we visited the death chamber with another one of our fine chaplains, Margie Holms, whose ministry is with those sentenced to be executed. This was undeniably one of the most moving days in my life. The death house stands alone, surrounded with concertina wire and with what seemed to be hundreds of locked doors. The prisoners are sent here from death row five days prior to execution. They are not allowed to bring any personal items with them, including pictures or even bibles. Their only personal possession is a piece of paper with their prison information. The killing room was, as America would have it, nice, neat, sterile and tidy. The electric chair and the gurney were almost side by side. Most of us took the opportunity to sit in the electric chair. I could not get my breath. A sense of evil pervaded the air and the heaviness of death was palpable. Anyone who spent time in that place could not help realize that we must work harder and take a more active role in bringing an end to capital punshment in America.

The Rev.Jackie Means





The Bishop's Notebook
5 April 2002

This Notebook entry was prepared by Gerry Blackburn, Director for Military Ministries.

The following four brief questions in the prologue of Henri Nouwen's book "The Living Reminder" have been extremely helpful to me over the years: "What are the spiritual resources for ministers? What prevents them from becoming dull, sullen, lukewarm bureaucrats, people who have many projects, plans, and appointments but who have lost their heart somewhere in the midst of their activities? What keeps ministers vital, alive, energetic and full of zeal? What allows them to preach and teach, counsel and celebrate with a continuing sense of wonder, joy, gratitude, and praise?" In short, the relationship between the professional life and the spiritual life of both ordained priests and lay ministers should be of concern to all of us lest we simply become empty vessels instead of being "living reminders" of the Christ we are called to represent in the world.

When Bishop Packard convened the senior military, prison and healthcare leadership in January 2002, he asked what each of the three communities needed most in their next respective community gatherings. The military chaplains recommended that the 2002 East and West Coast Conferences each be a focused spiritual retreat this year. As a result, military chaplains and spouses this year will gather around the retreat theme of "The Spiritual Life of the Spiritual Leader: Tending, Nurturing and Deepening."

Another support is the establishment of a menu item on our Web page called "The Contemplative Life." There you will find book reviews submitted by Chaplain Gary Parker on the three books being suggested as reading for this year's East and West Coast military chaplains' retreats. Also, that menu item offers links for spiritual formation and some excellent meditations on the Christ-centered spiritual life.

We all want to be faithful servants to our calling. It is the strong desire of Bishop Packard and his staff that we assist you by providing helpful spiritual nourishment opportunities. The periodic conferences that each community (healthcare, prison and military) has, along with our Web site and other resources and contacts, hopefully will be supportive of the spiritual nurture and deepening so needed if we are to be equipped to be "living reminders" to those whom we serve.

 
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